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Hey Ranj,
I hope you have time to read and respond to my letter becasue I really need your advice.  You see, I met this super awesome guy! He is smart, funny, really nice and super sexy! I think he is perfect
A minor inconvenience is that I live in Arizona and he lives in NY, but I just booked a ticket to go visit him at the end of March.  I'm planning to go to a party with him as his date, which is GREAT and I'm really excited about it, but I just looked at the RSVP list and this guy named Steve is on it.  It's a long story, but the bottom line is that now I'm nervous and afraid to go to the party because I don't want to run into Steve.  What should I do? -Slightly scared in Scottsdale

Hey Slightly scared,
If this guy is "super awesome" then he should be able to think something out. Perhaps he can contact the party organizer and arrange something. If this guy is trully perfect then he should be able to work this problem out for you. Tell him your situation and let he take control of it. Have faith in him. I'm sure he can come up with a solution to your problem.
 
As for the long distance inconvenience, I suspect that in time, if you both really want to be with each other, you'll both find a way to be together.